She's Gotta Have It
So it made me want to cry when I read your column about Joan Sewell's book I'd Rather Eat Chocolate: Learning to Love My Low Libido. How could you write these words: "And I'm saddened to report that, according to Sewell... there's no such thing as a woman who wants sex constantly. They don't exist." Sure, you put the phrase, "according to Sewell" in there, but you NEVER ONCE mentioned that there are tons of sex-crazed women out there.
Most women prefer mediocre sex, men's trouble with sex leads to crisis
Women have high expectations for nearly every area of their lives, but when it comes to sex, they settle for less.
And most women keep their dissatisfaction with sex a secret, leaving their partners (let alone their doctors) in the dark, said Anita Clayton, a psychiatrist who focuses on women’s sexuality at the University of Virginia Health System.
“Whereas men, if they have trouble with sex, it’s a crisis. They run to the doctor and say ‘I need something for this.’ Women don’t do that. They just sort of stuff it down and push it further down on the list,” Clayton said.
Sex education for adults. Covering the how tos and what to do when it don't. Imagine something like those shows that where on HBO and Showtime. Not the Real Sex show where they had people having group sex therapy.
But nothing will help not wanting sex and then projecting for all woman kind a lack of need for sex. Sort of reinforcing the belief that females are just her to catch. Note even when saying yes they want sex. It is seen as strong desire to be a catcher.
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